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Remember You’re Not Alone

Sunday, March 14th, 2010

I have an amazing job – I have spent the last two nights till 11 PM with an amazing group of women who have worked in the banking industry for nearly 20 years – inputting data night after night. Many work two jobs to make ends meet, have large families, and an array of other challenges. Their jobs are being eliminated and are never coming back. They supported each other in writing resumes long into the evening when the rest of the world had already gone to bed. It was Friday night!
One woman lost her part time day job just this week…and other stay at home Moms work nights to make small but meaningful contributions to their household incomes.

Resilient and loving women!

I’m in awe, I’m humbled and blessed.

Are you “Up in the Air”?

Tuesday, January 26th, 2010

I recently saw “Up in the Air” a movie about a man who tells people they are fired for a living.  This is not dissimilar to the myriad of roles I have played in my own career.  In my current life as an outplacement career coach I confront the angst and fear clients feel as they step into the abyss of unemployment.  My job is to assist the willing through the “valley of darkness”.  I have assisted hundreds of client through this place and I know life on the other side can be so much more than you can imagine in this moment. In one scene, Clooney speaks with a very upset 50 something man who is anguishing about how his children will perceive him as a failure.  Clooney’s character asks him, “When did you give up your dream?” The employee looks at him aghast like he is crazy.  “I see here you minored in French cooking. When did you give up on that dream?” The client wakes up and recognizes,” When I was 23 for $25k.”  I have had these incredible moments with my own clients when they wake up and realize yes I’m in the right job or no it’s time to go back and rediscover the self I left behind. What are you dreaming about?

Be Seen

Tuesday, January 19th, 2010

I saw Avatar in 3D the other night. The greeting used on Pandora is, “I see you”. Yes it might be a cliché, however, I realized when my clients allow themselves to “be seen” it allows for an awakening of the “true self”. Once we get to the point of trust and safety, clients open up and reveal their truth. What I’ve learned over the years is the importance of building on core strengths. Creating an “I am” statement is so powerful. Claiming what you “like” and what comes “easy” for you, creates a remarkable energy and message. Simple and effective – When I repeat this message to myself and others, people understand how I can help. I am a transformer who accesses individual and company truths to create work that works. We are all unique and possess special gifts to share with the world. If you hide them from yourself and others because you don’t deem them “valuable” you withhold your highest potential. To my teachers/clients; The Wagon Master; The Remodeler; Mr. Fix It; Glenda the Good Witch; The Implementer; Socrates; Radar; The Organizer;…Thank you for being seen and sharing your gifts, you inspire and teach me.

Job-seekers share their 2009 lessons learned

Friday, January 15th, 2010

Here are the lessons learned in 2009 compiled last week at the SLC Job Club.  Thought it would help others in job search mode.  All are welcome, next meeting Thursday, January 21, 2005 1:00 PM Draper Library.

We had a great turn out for our first meeting at the Draper Library.  Below are some of the lessons learned we compiled from 2009.  One theme that was reiterated by many was: how humbling the job search process has been.   We all committed to being compassionate with others who are unemployed and returning emails and calls.  We understand people are busy but when someone you consider a close colleague doesn’t return your call it can be devastating.  As a reminder: don’t take it personally. 

2009 LOOKING BACK

What Worked Well

·         Linked In has enhanced its effectiveness for job-seekers

·         Phone Calls (Warmth and Connection) – don’t expect the company to find the resume – once you apply follow-up with a call.

·         Use Careerbuilder.com site to test resume

·         Tailor resume specifically to the Job Posting (Use Key Words from Posting in Resume)

·         Network (Be prepared to tell about your career interest in any situation)

·         Copy/Paste the Job Posting to your resume(white text)

·         Conduct Informational Interview in industries and companies to identify excellent prospects

·         Give what you want to receive – Help others

·         Opportunities may appear randomly – Target your effort to control/create more synchronicity

·         Pay attention and Follow-up

·         Volunteer/Non-profit service (Stay connected and support your well-being)

·         Take part-time work in a company that is solely for personal interest/fun (Eg. retail)

What Didn’t Work Well

·         Dumping resumes online (Ladders, Monster)

·         Walk-ins or Cold Calling with Hiring Managers

·         Companies have a larger applicant pool and post for the perfect candidate the “must meets” is more critical than before.

 

OTHER OBSERVATIONS:

 

·         Linked In JOB POSTINGS took off this year

·         Facebook , Twitter and other Social-Networking sites are emerging

·         If you select a recruiter/headhunter, you should vet them for fit and compatibility

o   Retained Recruiters – get paid no matter where the candidate is found

o   Contingency Recruiters – only get paid for the candidate they present

·         Disclose all companies and contacts with whom you have made direct applications when working with recruiters

·         A well-written cover letter can still help you stand out from the crowd.  This makes a much bigger impact in smaller companies vs. the large employer.

·         Today’s market is about Income Security NOT Job Security.  The concept of free lancer who cobbles together projects and assignments matches over 1/3 of the current working population.  Don’t discount an opportunity that is short term or part time especially if it improves your skill set.

·         Occasionally salary offers may be less than the prevailing industry standard in recent years

Be prepared to offer a clear case for the salary you expect.  Recent data that was released this week from the Department of Labor shows many job seekers are taking as much as a 25% pay cut.  Unfortunately, the report also pointed out it’s difficult to ever recoup such a pay cut through someone’s career.

Passion Trumps Age

Wednesday, April 8th, 2009

I was asked this question in a coaching session: “Is there age discrimination?” The client who asked this question was over 55 years old, recently displaced from a long time position. His assumption and mine was there is discrimination against someone over the age of 50 with gray hair. My simple response was yes.

Then I got curious and started to ask other clients and people I met throughout the week. 

  • A 39 year old female told me that when she speaks to a group of male architects they don’t take her seriously. “It’s because I look like in my 20’s and they think I’m not old enough to be credible. How can I look older?”
  • A 27 year old wants to look older on a resume and in person. “I know I can do this job. I think that since I’m young and older candidates with more experience are applying for this job I don’t have a chance.”
  • A woman who has  held a series of high level jobs has decided she wants to work in a certain geographical area no matter what the level of position. “I have found my age and experience intimidates most hiring people. They can’t believe I’m willing to work at a lower level for a lower salary. I want to work and I know I can bring huge value. Is there a way to get around the bias?”
  • A 59 year old programmer came into my office. I assumed “oh this is going to be tough.” But he was so excited about technology and all the cool projects he has worked on. He is still learning and he can’t wait to find the next company or client he can help through his knowledge of technology. After two minutes I forgot how old he was.

So the short answer is “yes”, there is age discrimination. However, here is my new assumption. PASSION TRUMPS AGE. What are your own assumptions about age?

  • I assume someone in their 20’s and 30’s has more energy than someone in their 50’s.
  • I assume someone who is over 45 has more time and focus since their children are
  • I assume that regardless of age an individual’s passion and focus will trump age every time.
  • I assume some of us want to work – just not “that” hard.
  • I assume most of us need to work.

Assumptions are discriminations we make throughout our day. They are short cuts we use to assess our environment.  But be aware.  Your assumptions about yourself and others may not be the real story.

Regardless of your chronological age you should be tring new things – Yep facebook; linked-in and twitter; learning new skills – yes - photography or drawing counts; work out – yes yoga and golf count; rediscovering the passion for life and learning is an ongoing process.

So put down the remote – step away from the computer.  Stay active…Stay young or young at heart!  Remember the often quoted Woody Allen: “eighty percent of success is showing up!”

Job Search: What Else Can I Do? Tip #10

Wednesday, April 1st, 2009

Be grateful. You are in a process – the valley or darkness or limbo is all part of the adult development process. You may feel like you’re the only one feeling this way or having trouble – not true. Adult development research shows we all go through the dark night of the soul at least 2 -5 times in our life times. Research also shows that it takes 2-3 years to reconfigure your self. It’s not something you do on a weekend. You take a step and another and often have no idea where you will end up. There are always forks in the road of life’s journey and taking an opportunity can often lead you somewhere you never expected to be. I find that very cool. When I was 20, I thought once I was an “adult” I was a done deal. At 55, I realize I’m never a done deal as I learn something amazing about myself and others every day.

Thanks for reading. How can I serve You?

Job Search: What Else Can I Do? Tip #9

Monday, March 30th, 2009

Define your own success. Don’t allow someone else to tell you if you’re successful or not. I love making money and I also love having control over my time. I have the ability to say yes or no to a person or project, and continue to seek something that works for me. The name of my company is “What’s Working Well?”. Everyone has a different definition of what working well, healthy, prosperous, etc means to them. The question is much more important to ask rather than thinking I know the answer for you.

Job Search: What Else Can I Do? Tip #8

Friday, March 27th, 2009

Try something. If it doesn’t work, try something else. The NLP phrase, “There is no such thing as failure – just feedback”; is a good one to remember.

Job Search: What Else Can I Do? Tip #7

Wednesday, March 25th, 2009

Seek help – I have had a series of coaches who have served at different points in my process. My business coach was someone I could call when I didn’t know what to do or forgot how resourceful and creative I truly am. Being a lone sole entrepreneur is often a lonely place to be.

Job Search: What Else Can I Do? Tip #6

Monday, March 23rd, 2009

Do something – I call it my retail therapy. I got a job at a card store working 10 hours a week. I’d never worked in retail, it kept me in the moment, I was able to serve others, and I had a small income stream. It was better than therapy. I loved helping people. I even ran into a few people I had interviewed or networked with.

I eventually started to build my own business through my asking “how can I serve?” I never intended to start my own business, it started to happen as I did small contract jobs and coached individuals through job transitions. I love my work because I know I make a difference every day for someone.